Love… it is a paradox!


You love someone deeply, you want to be with them.. they love you too… lf you come together on the basis of turmoil and trauma, and your life experience has been impacted by those things then love is a paradox…

We are influenced by our spiritual and souls experiences, we are influenced by the physical and emotional experiences and we are influenced by the words and opinions of others… often those outside influences bring something additional because they come from people with their own perspective and often their own interests, opinions, intentions and agendas…

But love! If it’s real it isn’t just turned off… and often in the circumstances where other people’s agendas are present it’s not nurtured either.. it is a paradox… “I love you but I am left believing someone or something else” even after you’ve owned yourself… courage is found in understanding oneself and the path to healing… the paradox of love under these circumstances is one of courageous actions…

I realised through this journey and accepting my own faults that real love is something deeper than failure.. it’s also about realising the only person you need to respect and impress is yourself… the only person who you can fix is you…

Author: Only One, But a lion!

Only One; But A Lion! Writer, blogger and explorer of life... Writer, blogger and explorer of humanity-single dad-story teller-giver of hugs... wiper of tears- I am imperfect.. but hope is eternal 💕 Exploring the Motive of Conversation, events, who we are and how to heal from trauma... These are my words, from my soul, bound with hope, love and a willingness to share, to open the minds, hearts and souls of others ~ Hope - it’s the best and last of all things ~ The Motive

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