Don’t hold onto someone who ghosts you…


When someone you’ve loved walks out of your life and they can’t be bothered to check in on your sanity, health or wellness… let them go on their way.. wish them peace and light and look towards your horizon… but honour their presence in your life…

This is an important message they are sending you when they simply just ghost you…. that you are not worth anything to them, the love you gave was not worth anything to them… and the fact that you’ve owned yourself and had courage and the wisdom to reflect on yourself means nothing to them…

life is hard enough, we are living breathing beings, not toys or items of clothing… we are not things that can be replaced. We are unique, and if we’ve let our most human experience become our souls experience then we should find peace in ourselves… it is not hard to whisper the words “I pray for your peace, I pray for your safe passage, and hold gratitude for what you gave me.”

its not about long conversations or attachment, it’s about honour of what was given… it’s simply honour of what once was… we have become a species that discards life… be it other people or the planet we live upon… take time to remember we are a life… we are a soul that was once a child…

just because they treat you like you are worthless doesn’t mean you are worthless… it means your worth is going to be seen and felt by others who love and respect it in a way that helps nurture your soul… selfworth is important, but so is feeling loved…

if nothing else, just feel this for a moment…

to love and honour someone who’s no longer a part of you is your souls way of honouring what you gave to them… that your journey was real… your gifts were real and you are not disposable… live knowing someone will love you the way you love… it they have gone… something more is coming.. ~ The Motive 🙏🏽💕

Author: Only One, But a lion!

Only One; But A Lion! Writer, blogger and explorer of life... Writer, blogger and explorer of humanity-single dad-story teller-giver of hugs... wiper of tears- I am imperfect.. but hope is eternal 💕 Exploring the Motive of Conversation, events, who we are and how to heal from trauma... These are my words, from my soul, bound with hope, love and a willingness to share, to open the minds, hearts and souls of others ~ Hope - it’s the best and last of all things ~ The Motive

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